Bromantic ending!

The status of relationships are getting complicated between a man and woman .Well, there was a time when this was the simplest of relationships.

We are in the times of Gay and Lesbian relationships (not that they didn't exist before), but to be open about it like today!

I think all of us will have to accept our slight inclination to the same sex. That doesn't make us Gay/Lesbian for sure.

For all the men who fantasize two women kiss and brooding over a man’s close to perfect physique and to all the kinkiness of the woman wanting to kiss Angelina Jolie or Lady Gaga for that matter, I think it is absolutely normal.

We have started being extremely judgemental about the way we look at people around. I’m sometimes scared to ask my boyfriend out because I have a gang of his best friends exchanging stern looks.

With movies explicitly describing a man- man and woman -woman relationships and having the freedom to talk about it irrespective of the gender, forces one to think so.

But “bromance” is what all wants deep down.

There is no doubt about the concept of "Hole and Pole" when it comes to sex it has to be a man and woman.

But now what is missing in our lives is companionship. In our busy day to day lives after long stressful work there is nothing like a day at the spa with your girl friends or a movie together.

Same goes for the boys to do an alcohol, grill and gossip session at a friend’s place.

 The key point here is not to give a negative vibe or that your emotions should not be misread, as today it is very common that another person of the same sex is attracted to you. I do think twice if a woman is showing any sort of interest in me.

 But time to accept our bromances.

 A man has his counterparts at the gym working out and exchanging diets and protein mixes, Meet up with your other guy friends and their friends too and the next thing you know is that they are the next best friends. Instead of just having a few beers, watching the game and then calling it a night they watch movies together or test drive a new bike.

This way there is no confusion on their inclination. These are clearly men who are straight and men who take time out to holiday with their partners and have romantic dinners but still manage to lift weights go to heavy metal rock shows, play video games which are clearly not your partner’s favourite past time.

 Nothing to worry ladies it is not your birth right to have BFF (best friends forever ) but when it is a man and man the relationship is minus the egos.

The BFF’s shop together, goes for coffees or drinks at the bar in their best possible ensemble ,goes to the spa , share an afternoon baking a muffin, clicking a picture with a perfect pout , airbrushes it and puts it up on “Facebook” to get nothing less than 200 likes.

They watch movies (chic flicks ), attend kitty parties and always are protective about their men who practically give them just the sperm.

Clearly the BFF  hates the guy you are dating and is extremely critical of him. She will spy around him and find all those hidden secrets ( mostly infidelity) and forces you to confront him.

The Girl’s best friend is constantly trying to be you and get all that you have and mould their lives just like yours. 

  Can you imagine getting your boyfriend to work out with you and carry your shopping bags. If at all you manage to convince him you are stuck up with a man who is constantly whining as if you made him paint his nails pink.

More and more communities spring up on the internet for women to find other women with common interests like photography, meditation and travel irrespective of age or marital status; this is definitely trending now.

I would rather travel with a woman and do my shopping-sightseeing- partying regime than end up in the hotel room checking out the bar and casino!!

I still remember in school I made a pact with a good best friend that we should buy a flat in a city and stay together as best friends forever, little did I know that this would be a possible option today.

It is wonderful to see women of today go any extent to live and love themselves keeping their dependency on the second person man/woman to a bare minimum and add a lot of fun and colour to their lives.

That way you have a happy bunch of girlfriends and a happier partner.

And then they all lived happily ever after

A bromantic ending …….